I was a handsome lad of 5’11″, good athelete and of reasonable sharp wit and confidence. I am now 50 and have a bald spot on top since I was 20. After I had losts the upper most part of my hair, I was rejected by some women (or so I preceived it) for much the same reason (while in my glorious full head of hair youth) I used to reject other women whom were deemed less that perfect, and therefore not worthy, only just months before. What goes around… etc.. Oh, the pain to a formerly blond haired, confident, teststostrone infused young man. It was a lesson.
After I concluded that I had to eat my spinach, whether I liked it or not, many other wonderful things became available to me. The spinach (yuk) porvided me with some strengths which may have evaded for many years. perhaps forever. It has helped aliviate (not eliminate) the judging of people by their looks, bringing many pleasant acquintances which is a bounty most cases.
So the goal free living idea struck some harmonious chord. A song not often sung in recent years in western thinking. At first blush I was skeptical and still reserve a healthy dose to be applied as needed. The feel of it all is a little to close to the whole self improvement mish-mash, but lets not throw out the baby with the bath water. It is just so many people spend their time and hard earned money instead of just their time in honest thought, not just 60 seconds but deep consideration of our lives and directions.dive. The long and short of it is bravo for striking out and taking the